Hi
1) The feed to the RLMs input needs to come from anywhere that is feed from the main DCC console. If you use a Bus Pair or DCC feed wires then tap off of those. If you rely on the rails to pass DCC around the main layout then tap off the rails somewhere that's feed from the main DCC console.
The input connection onto the RLM doesn't matter which way around the two wires are fitted.
The RLMs output two connections feed all the rails inside the IRJs and all left hand rails connect to one output wire and all right hand rails to the other RLM output wire.
2) When wiring a DCC layout you should always maintain the same main bus wire to the same handed rail throughout the main layout. That is all Outer rails to one bus wire and all Inner rails to the other bus wire. Using the same insulation wire colours for both bus and droppers makes this easier e.g. Red and Black or whatever two colours are chosen. Failure to ensure all same handed rails connect to the one bus wire will result in a full short circuit on the bus and DCC console. So the answer is normally all rails after the IRJs on the main line side should all be to the same bus wire and all opposite sides rails to the other bus. It doesn't matter which way around these are to the Reverse Loops rails, as the RLM will flip the rails to match the main system as necessary.
However, the simplest option IMO on your plan is the need to reposition the left hand tracks pair of IRJs to next to the point as I've shown in Blue line cutting across the track (attached below). A siding will also be included in that section too. Ensure there are no main line DCC feeds on the amended section and the siding. The remaining IRJs a=can all remain as shown or if wished be pushed up more towards the main line point ends. That's up to you.
One thing that needs to be understood is that only one loco/train should enter or leave the RLM section at the same time. That is only ever should one loco/train is permitted to bridge the IRJs at any one time.
You can have as many locos /trains inside the Reverse loop controlled area as you like, but only one must leave or enter at a time.
