Checking on an entry on the old Hattons site shows a picture of that decoder alongside a stayalive that leads me to think Brian's assumptions are correct.
The stay alive wires should be black - negative, blue - positive. On the decoder itself, I would remove the heat shrink and trace the two spare wires back to where they are soldered.
One will likelybe connected to the bridge rectifier (negative) and the other to a positive solder pad. The bridge rectifier will probably look like four SMD diodes in a close arrangement on the decoder.
That should help identify which way round to join the wires.
Of course it may just release the magic smoke contained in all decoders,
